The Biggest Threat to Your Prayer Life

Steven Lee

Pastor for Preaching & Vision

Dear North Church,

It’s probably no surprise, but I have been pondering prayer as of late. I have been spurred on in my pursuit of God’s presence in prayer as I’ve prepared sermons. I have prayed all the more that God might grow us collectively in the practice of prayer. It’s not going to look flashy, but it will be the quiet cultivation of true worship and devotion that is the foundation for all that we do. Yet, there is a great threat to our prayer lives.

The threat I’m thinking about is how our attention is constantly being pulled in a thousand directions. We live in a world where billions of dollars are invested in getting your attention. Some of our greatest minds are scheming behind the scenes to distract you and keep you distracted. This happens on the radio, in your social media feed, through phone notifications, podcasts, audiobooks, YouTube videos, unsolicited email spam, sponsored ads in search results, and even billboards featuring that real estate guy with ridiculously long arms. Everyone wants your attention.

This is described as an “attention economy” because our attention is a limited and scarce resource. If you give your attention to a particular podcast, it is being directed away from somewhere else. Far too often, all of this noise crowds out our contemplation of God and pursuit of him in prayer.

The practice of prayer does not have any advertisements, phone notifications, or billboards working on its behalf. It’s easy to be distracted by everything else, including the things we have to do. Yet, Jesus’ words to Martha are a good reminder to us. Martha asked Jesus to have her sister Mary help with the hosting preparations. Jesus replied, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her” (Luke 10:41–42).

Jesus’ words warn us from majoring in minor things (e.g., anxiously getting all of the hosting details perfect) and passing over what is of greatest importance: enjoying Jesus’ presence and company. One great battleground of our faith is resisting all the noise that threatens to crowd out our prayer life, and instead, slowing down to be still before our Lord. Let us not neglect the “good portion.” In Psalm 46:10, God reminds us, “Be still, and know that I am God.”

So let this email, hopefully not unsolicited, be your reminder to draw near to God in prayer this week. We get to be in God’s glorious presence and bring simple and childlike prayers to our heavenly Father. I hope he has your attention.

In Christ,

Pastor Steven