Fellowship With God and One Another

Josh Bremerman
Pastor for Discipleship
Dear North Family,
When we talk about why we exist as a church, where we are going in our vision, and who we are becoming as individual Christians, we often use language like “spreading a passion for the supremacy of God in all things for the joy of all peoples through Jesus Christ” and “oaks of righteousness shining the light of the glory of Christ for the sake of our neighbors and the nations.”
These grand mission and vision statements give clarity to our aim and purpose in all that we do, and they also push us to pray for God to provide in ways we cannot possibly ask for or imagine (Ephesians 3:20–21). Thinking about how to move abstract aspirations into concrete strategies, we answer the question, “How do we get there?” with a fivefold pathway:
- Behold the glory of God in worship →
- Believe (and keep believing) in Jesus by faith →
- Belong to community and be discipled →
- Become more like Jesus →
- Befriend and evangelize the lost.
Some of these feel intuitive. In order to become like Jesus, we need to behold him in his glory (2 Corinthians 3:18). All of our preaching and teaching intends to root us and establish us in our believing (Colossians 2:6–7). The very commission that Jesus left to his disciples entails befriending the lost so that they too might follow Jesus (Matthew 28:18–20).
We might not connect belonging as centrally to our own thoughts about discipleship and growth as Christians. Church fellowship might feel like an excellent add-on to being a Christian, but should we actually think about it as a crucial element of the Christian life?
John, however, directly connects fellowship with God (behold and believe), walking in the light (become), and pressing into fellowship with one another (belong), “If we say we have fellowship with [God] while we walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth. But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus his Son cleanses us from all sin” (1 John 1:6–7).
When we walk in the light—confessing our sins for forgiveness and walking in holiness by the power of the Spirit at work in us—we have fellowship with one another, and as a result we do not lie about our fellowship with God. Fellowship matters.
When I think of how our discipleship pathway relates to “oaks of righteousness,” I envision behold as the fuel for the tree’s life—perhaps the sun or water. Without beholding, the tree dies. Believe sits underneath the tree as its roots. Through ongoing study of the Scriptures, meditation, and prayer, the base of the tree grows secure. Become implies fruit, or at least acorns. Befriend finishes the process when neighbors come to gather the fruit and participate in the joy of the Christian life.
What part of the tree is missing? Belonging is the trunk of the tree, important for both growth and stability. The trunk of a tree provides a highway for water and nutrients to move from the roots to the fruits. It also lifts the tree’s canopy higher to receive more sunlight, and thus, growth. During heavy winds, the trunk of the tree acts as a shock absorber and a structural anchor, holding steady until the storm subsides.
In the Christian life, God provides us with fellowship as a highway for holiness. We come alongside one another to encourage, admonish, and help in order that our roots (believe) might overflow in good fruit (become) as we lift one another up to the sunlight (behold). We also provide one another a ballast during the storms of life until the trials settle.
With this truth in mind, I want to invite you to consider pressing into this element of our church’s life. The Small Group ministry is our key avenue for belonging here at The North Church, and you are welcome to register for Small Group Connect on Sunday, August 23 at 11am, where you can hear from small group leaders about different groups you can join. Additionally, if you would be willing to serve as a facilitator for this crucial ministry, please consider filling out a Small Group Leader Application or reaching out to me for more information.
Grateful for the fellowship we share in Christ,
Pastor Josh























































