Seeing One Another Clearly: Four Realities That Shape Wise Ministry

Brian Liechty

Christian Unity

Identity in Christ

Dear North Church Family,

One of the greatest blessings God has given us is the opportunity to minister to one another. As brothers and sisters in Christ, we get to bear one another’s burdens, encourage one another, and help each other grow in Christ. These opportunities are all around us—in a small group, while discipling a younger believer, or even in a simple conversation after the service when we pray with a friend. But if we are going to minister wisely, we must first see one another rightly. So it is worth asking: How should we understand the person God places in front of us?

‍As a pastor and biblical counselor, I've found that Scripture gives us four categories that help us to care wisely for others. Every person we encounter is a creature, a sinner, a sufferer, and—for those who belong to Christ—a saint. Keeping these realities in view helps us avoid simplistic conclusions and minister with the wisdom and grace of Christ.

‍We are creatures.

‍The Bible begins by reminding us that we are created by God in his image (Genesis 1:26–27). We are fearfully and wonderfully made, yet finite, limited, and dependent. God designed us to need food, sleep, clothing, shelter, other people, and, above all, himself.

Remembering that we are creatures cultivates humility and understanding. Sometimes the person who seems distant is simply weary and physically exhausted. Sometimes the person who struggles to listen has difficulty tuning out distractions. While our limitations don’t make us sin, they do shape the way we respond. Wise ministry remembers that God created us as embodied souls who depend upon him every moment of every day.

‍We are sinners.

‍Scripture also teaches that every one of us is a sinner who falls short of God’s glory (Romans 3:10–12, 23). Pride, unbelief, selfishness, anger, lust, and countless other sins reveal our ongoing need for God's sanctifying grace.

This means that part of ministering to one another is being willing to offer exhortation and correction when it’s needed. Yet remembering that we, too, are sinners keeps us from becoming harsh or self-righteous. As Galatians 6:1 reminds us, we are to restore one another in a spirit of gentleness, knowing that we also stand in constant need of God's mercy.

‍We are sufferers.

‍Not every struggle, however, is the result of personal sin. After all, we live in a fallen world that is filled with sorrow and pain. Our bodies age. We get sick. People betray us. Loved ones die. It’s no wonder that the entire creation groans as it awaits final redemption (Romans 8:22–23).

Because people are sufferers, sometimes they simply need someone to sit with them, pray with them, weep with them, and remind them that Christ is near to the brokenhearted. Our Savior was "a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief" (Isaiah 53:3). He sympathizes with our weaknesses (Hebrews 4:15). As the body of Christ, we have the privilege of reflecting that same compassionate heart to one another.

‍We are saints.

‍Perhaps the most encouraging truth of all is that everyone who has trusted in Christ is a saint—a holy one who has been set apart for God’s purposes (1 Corinthians 1:2). Although we continue to battle sin and endure suffering, we do so as those who have been washed, sanctified, and justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of God (1 Corinthians 6:11).

Seeing one another as saints transforms how we encourage one another. We do not merely point out problems; we remind one another of God's gracious work and call one another to live in light of who we already are in Christ. Because the Holy Spirit dwells within every believer, no Christian is beyond hope. God is committed to changing our hearts and conforming us to the image of his Son. Indeed, he who began a good work in us will be faithful to bring it to completion (Philippians 1:6).

My prayer for The North Church is that these four biblical realities would shape the way we minister to one another. As we remember that every person is a creature, sinner, sufferer, and saint, we become slower to judge, quicker to listen, and wiser in our counsel.

With God’s help, may we be a church that sees one another clearly, loves one another deeply, and brings the hope and help of Jesus to one another in every season of life.

‍Pastor Brian Liechty