Partnering With Our Families

Andrew Cagle

Pastor for Children & Families

North Church family,

Two weeks ago it was a joy and honor to preach. As a relatively new pastor at The North Church, having the opportunity to proclaim God’s Word to you was a true privilege. On Sunday, June 14, I pointed us to the paradigm of Timothy’s faith formation, challenging all of us to pass on the gospel to the next generation by teaching the truth of God’s Word, testifying to its power, and treasuring it in our lives.

As Pastor Steven mentioned in a recent email, we are engaged in a spiritual war for our children. On this battlefield, we seek to pass the baton of our faith, relying entirely on God’s help. One of our family dedication commitments expresses our covenant as parents and the church: We commit “with God’s fatherly help to bring up our children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord, making every reasonable effort, with patience and love, to build the Word of God, the character of Christ, and the joy of the Lord into their lives.”

I believe wholeheartedly that this commitment requires the help and encouragement of our entire community. We partner with families in more ways than a hearty “amen” on Sunday mornings. Here are three concrete ways you can partner with young families right now:

  • Serve in a classroom: Our age-specific classes supplement and bolster the disciple-making work of the home. As we look ahead to the Fall, we estimate a need for about 35 additional volunteers across Sunday services and Wednesday Connection to minister to the hundreds of children God has blessed us with. Even during the summer, our nurseries see an average of 60 little ones on Sundays. Fill out this Volunteer Interest Form to find out more about our opportunities.
  • Pray intentionally: Use our attendance numbers to fuel your prayers. “Pray earnestly to the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into his harvest” (Luke 10:2). Pray for our parents to be sustained and equipped. When you hear of a new baby born (we’ve already welcomed 20 in 2026!), or see a family dedicate themselves and their children, write their names down and pray for them.
  • Connect with a busy family: If you aren't in a season where you are able to serve in a classroom, you can still put your faith on display. Encourage weary parents in the trenches of toddler tantrums and inquisitive questions. If you are single or an empty-nester, consider joining a small group with young parents or inviting a busy family over for a meal.

When I was in college, a young family who hosted and led my small group let me into their mealtimes and bedtime routines many nights. The scene was often not picture-perfect. There were tantrums, tears, and messes, yet there was also prayer, scripture memory, and Bible stories. That time with them taught me a lot about parenting as a believer, and prepared me for the reality (not the ideal) of raising children to know, love, and treasure Christ. Let little ones see other believers happily present in the messy, beautiful reality of a Christ-centered home.

However God leads you to partner with families—whether by serving, praying, or simply being present in their ordinary lives—do so joyfully and for the glory of God. Let’s renew our passion to spread the supremacy of God in all things for the joy of the next generation through Jesus Christ.

With joy,

Pastor Andrew